Deal With the Side Chic (Strange Woman)

The tempting power of a strange woman is so alluring that men find it difficult to turn her away, she met him with seductive and provocative clothing, she went after him, she builds him up, she kissed him and she prepares a place for intimacy because of these men run after her. Sometimes they leave us with questions like “is this the man I got married to” or “why did I get married”. The solution of every problem is in the problem. The answers to these questions can be internal or external, internal in the sense that it could be you, external could be somebody through you.

  
Some women believe that all men cheat and if you belong to that category I’m sorry because this article isn’t for you. You get what you believe. Having a positive mind-set about any issue of concern keeps you in charge of that thing/situation. Winning and losing begins in the mind. It’s only losers who think that winners never lose.

    Internal home breakers

There are two characteristics of a person or a human being which is SELF and HUMAN. Self in this content is what you think about yourself while human is what other people think of you. In our next article we will be discussing on the topic “when everybody is right” who are you? What do you think about yourself? Who do people think you are? Learning starts with booking an appointment with you.

According to research, it was recorded that 80% of a man’s problem is caused by him. This means that you are the cause of your marital issues. For instance, a fault finding woman will never be satisfied no matter the level of attention, affection and appreciation given to her by her husband.

Characteristics of internal home breakers

Disobedience or disrespectful woman: surrendering is best demonstrated in obedience, a delay in obedience is simple disobedience. Most women don’t know this but this is what the strange woman gives him that makes him devalue you. It is very disrespectful for a woman to want a man to live with her based on her principles; you only win his love when you abide to his principles. That is what respect means to every man even your father. Total Submissiveness is not slavery most women misunderstand this phrase. Give yourself time to understand what respect means to him because what it meant to your ex may not be what it means to him.

Carelessness: carelessness means not being reasonable. Reasoning is an internal research that brings insight for exploit.  Most women are careless to think that a man can’t do without them. A careless woman cheats because her husband is cheating; she is a sex mate in her own house thereby leaving all the in-door activities for the maid. She is dirty, has a loud mouth and always arguing with her husband. Men hate to be argued with, especially with their wife. Its lack of respect. The strange woman does not argue with him because their relationship is defined. Define your relationship. That your husband is broke should not make you irresponsible, After all being broke is simply an inability to dispense cash at the moment not forever. Stop making excuses and start taking responsibilities. Set boundary for visitor (maid), make your words count and raise him good children. Expect part 2 soon… thanks for your time