Thursday 19 October 2017

When a woman is strong



A woman’s dream is like an empty calabash that needs to be filled with water. Calabash in the sense that when it’s not properly handled it will not only be broken but the water will be lost. The mind of a woman is like a cargo container with many goods belonging to different persons that’s why she needs somebody to empty the goods. A father to tell her how beautiful she is, a mother(woman) to groom her, a brother to protect her, a sister to assist her, a friend to trend her issues and a husband to love her. There is nothing as fulfilling to a woman who has such in her life. But when a woman is broken; she suddenly becomes strong, very strong. Being endowed with influential power she influences everything around her just to get what she wants. There is nothing as terrifying as being with a broken/strong woman. Reasons why she is strong
Neglect: value is a proof of sacrifice and sacrifice is an aspect of love. The type of love you give to your wife will determine how she will love your children. When a woman feels that her presence is not recognized, she loses her nature. It kills her spirit. Most men don’t ask for their wives opinion on any issues of concern thereby making her feel like a sex slave. Please stop it, a little appreciation, affection and attention won’t hurt.
Unfaithfulness: having a husband that cheats is the worst nightmare ever. The message the men indirectly communicates to the public is that “she aren’t good enough”. The integrity of a woman is dependent on her husband respectively. When she feels like a loser it makes her strong. Build her integrity by being responsible, it makes her glow.
Good children:  some women who are still faithfully married to their husband today it’s simply because of their children. Maybe they’re scared of divorce or paying the bills. They sacrifice by taking all the maltreatment, domestic violence and rape. Just because she doesn’t want to raise her child alone but the moment the child becomes great and responsible she becomes extremely strong. She influences her children to do as she pleases thereby making life miserable for the man. A Woman incubates all seeds, the one and bad seed. Be careful which you give to her. She will always reproduce what’s given to her.


4 comments:

  1. Nice one... but a bit one sided. It presents a dependent woman, one who finds now life outside her matrimonial home, just 'a house wife'. But I do think women are stronger, they get through most times with all they maltreatment and all. God bless women!

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    1. The word strong is used as a negative statement. Thanks for ur time....talklatalk

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